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writes:I met a great girl a few months ago and have recently started sleeping with her. The problem is she is in a long distance relationship with a guy in another country.We spend a lot of time together but I get the feeling I'm more into her than she is me. I mean she hasn't mentioned breaking up with her long lost boyfriend anyway (not that we talk about it).She's only slept with a handful of guys, all when in relationships, so I really don't know what's going on in her head. I don't want to appear too clingy too soon when right now it's all fun.I just can't stop thinking about her. I don't feel like it's healthy for me to be in this situation, as second best, a fling, for too long.Knowing her history. Can it really stay 'just sex'?What should I do?!Should I just ride it out for a while and see what happens? Tell her she needs to deal with the bf situation before we can carry on seeing each other?Start seeing other girls?My gut is telling me to do all three, in that order, and keep a check on my emotions. I'd love to know what you guys think.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (11 April 2011):
 Stay away from her. It cannot really stay "just sex". Its going to be very painful for you to get involved and have your heart broken eventually. Its going to be a lose-lose situation for you from the word go. She isint even really into you now, there is no guarantee she would ever be in the future, she might never leave her long-distance boyfriend, you would just be a little secret on the side, you would have your heart broken and she might also cheat on someone else with you.
Find yourself someone whom you really deserve. All the best! Hope this helps..
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reader, SerenadeStarsRocks  +, writes (11 April 2011):
 thomas1214 is right stay away from this chick. If shes cheating constantly in her relationship what will stop her from cheating on you if she choose you?
Try to move on from her, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
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reader, thomas1214  +, writes (11 April 2011):
move on. this is the type of girl that gets a thrill from cheating. and also if she goes out with you.. whats going to stop her from cheating on you?
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