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writes:This is so wrong. i have been seeing my cousin for the past seventeen years, although we have both moved on and got married to our loved ones, ever chance we get like in family gatherings we still have sex. my wife is now not in town, i was with my cousin over the weekend, we made passionate love the whole of Saturday night, she was moaning, calling all sorts of names even saying i make her feel like really woman, only to confirm to me on sunday that she was two months pregnant with her husband's child and we had unprotected sex the reason for not telling me about her pregnancy was to she was scared i will be upset, i hate her for not telling before we had unprotected sex, by the way she always wanted to have my baby which am against...any advice will be of helpful thank you all.
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reader, nester  +, writes (12 April 2011):
what is wrong with you.first of all you should not be having sex with your cousin ever.2 i would not be telling people that you don,t even know about any of this. i think that you and your cousin need help. and if i was your wife and found out about what was going on.i would take you to the cleaners.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2011): I really think you both need some serious therapy. Boundaries have been totally lost here. You don't sleep with animals,children, or blood relatives. Get the picture? they are all seen as sick and disgusting to the common world for good reason. Some things you should think about. why would she tell you she was pregnant. what loyalty does she have to you? NONE. she is married to someone else. if she is cheating on him,what makes you think she would be honest to you or not cheat on you. If you can't deal with the consequences of having sex, then you should not have sex. with sex, pregnancy can happen,especially unprotected sex. you said you were against her getting pregnant by you, then why would you have unprotected sex with her or even sex at all. try explaining that one to your wife, family and the child that is produced later. if you and your cousin loved eachother so much that you had to continue this sick relationship why would you bring innocent people into the mix and marry them? you are causing so much damage to them and you don't even care or see it. if your love for your cousin was so strong and vice versa then why didn't you choose to live your lives together? is it because you know it is shameful and would come with a great price? what happens when this child is born? either way, you need to stop this affair now, cut off all contact with her, and do some real soul searching and learn about yourself. this isn't normal and it isn't healthy for anyone, even for you. seek advice from a counselor,pastor, or trusted wise friend. I pray for your sake you wake up and stop this before the damage goes any further. You will get caught. Nothing stays a secret forever. what if she decides to confess to someone or her husband. what if your wife comes home unexpectedly. it will catch up to you. then what? don't wait until you are caught in the act and that image damages someone for life. catching someone with their own blood relative! don't wait until there is a child produced from this. things have a way of coming out. right now you are in the driver seat and can take control of the issue. if you wait, you will lose it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2011): Hey get a grip. Incest.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (11 April 2011):
 If you don't want to get her pregnant then you shouldn't be having unprotected sex with her.
How about calling off the affair with your own flesh and blood? Perhaps you two should concentrate on your own marriages.
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reader, shoccs  +, writes (11 April 2011):
That is sick on so many levels, thats like sleeping with your sister! You need help, your sick in the head.thats your blood fool!
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (11 April 2011):
 Well at least you know that she won't get pregnant from you this time. My understanding is that you two meet up for sex so it is in her best interest to not tell you something that would put you off from having sex with her. My advice to you would be to stop this affair. It's one thing to have an affair but your cousin is having a baby and you two shouldn't be doing this. If you must have an affair find someone else but maybe this should be the time when you move on from this one before she has the baby.
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reader, viva11  +, writes (11 April 2011):
What do you think ur wife would do if she found out about ur fling?
Does ur wife get along with ur cousin?
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