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writes:A friend of mine and I have a complicated relationship. It is complicated in the fact that I have had on and off feelings for him, but as of recently, been keeping it platonic. And he is a massive flirt who will flirt with most girls in my year and the year below (we are both in year 11).On a recent trip, he told me that he wanted a girlfriend and I thought that he may change from his flirtatious ways and start acting serious- not towards me however, because at that time I was not into him, but nevertheless maybe with someone he liked. I offered him advice, which I think he took but I don’t think seriously. This is because, just last week, in a text conversation that started out fairly innocent- you know “how are you”? He text me this: (Me) “What are you up to”? (Him) “Playing with my nipples hehehe love you lots xxxxxxx”This particular text is not out of the ordinary, as he has text me such things and I have overlooked them. But I then text him : “cheers 4 that msg (!) He txt me saying: please f**k me hard I’m being serious. XxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxI managed to handle the situation pretty well by changing the subject, to sports, to which he replied: “Who is this?” I took this to mean that he didn’t expect me to change the subject to sports (of all things), nevertheless I text him my name and reminded me that we were texting each other for the last hour, to which he said “I wasn’t texting you... :s”, then text me again saying “1. Your texts are hard to read, 2. You are weird, 3. Your hair is strange, 4. He is French” I am seeing this guy soon, and I would like some advice. What do I do? Put it down to him being a teenage boy? Ask him what on earth he was on when texting me or ignore, overlook and put it down to me being paranoid?Thank you for all the help and advice!!
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reader, BeckieYMA6 +, writes (11 April 2011):
 Just ignore it.Me and my Boyfriend to exactly the same to his mate!From the sounds of it, he was either joking, or was just being a typical horny guy :L He's just being a flirt, he doesn't want anything out of it, or he would have admitted it, lets face it, he's not a shy guy.Just ignore him, and he's being pretty horrible, so i wouldn't go and meet him:sYou're better then that, he'll probably say something completely different to your face.
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reader, BriBri  +, writes (11 April 2011):
Okay i have been through this kinda.Girl, you need to just forget about him.Because that is beyond weird what he's talking bout.Hope i helped!!:))
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