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writes:I am 13 and I want to have sex but I am obviously to young and I get horny a lot and I don't know what to do I finger myself sometimes and I use a small toy or a hair brush it is kind is satisfying but I want a vibrator but I don't want to ask my mum and definitely not my dad (cause I'm a daddy's girl) I thought about asking my bro (17) but I'm to scared so what do I do I have already been caught my by my mum and bro watching porn but I don't know what to do please help me and give me advise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011): If you and your bro are close it is perfectly fine to ask him. I would much rather my little sis ask me to buy her one than go off having sex with random guys. I hope things work out.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (11 April 2011):
 Use the shower. The pressure of the water against your clitoris will give you all the relief you need. Then once you get old enough you can buy a vibrator. You should be very careful with inserting objects into your vagina. Always put a condom on them if you insert any objects, to avoid infections. Be careful with hard and possibly sharp objects as well, such as a hairbrush. You can hurt yourself, not permanently, but enough for it to be painful, and again possible for infections.
For now, when you take a shower just shower downstairs as well and you should manage.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (11 April 2011):
Well, if you are about to ask your brother to buy you a vibrator I would like you to record his face in that very moment, because I would love to see that video.Anyway, if he's 17 he could have problems to buying it too. He's still under age. I don't know if sex toys are for sell to minors in UK, but I don't think so.Please don't try to replace a vibrator (in case you can't get one) with any other device like bottles or anything like that. That's very dangerous and unhealthy. Maybe you brother can talk to someone else (over 18) to buy it. Or he could be able to buy it being 17 anyway.Masturbation is healthy so, in the end, you should ask your mother for it. Tell her that it's better than having sex with a boy. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2011): Maybe you can wright your brother a note and put it some place were only he can see it, it depends on how close you are to each other.
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reader, based51  +, writes (11 April 2011):
 You really shouldn't. Your brother will be creeped out. And brothers and sisters really shouldn't share those things with each other. Guess you're going to have to wait till you have your own bank account, kid.
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reader, BeckieYMA6 +, writes (11 April 2011):
 Is there not another person you can ask?If you ask your Brother it will be very embarrassing, and you will probably not be able to look him in the face for a very long time.Just masturbate more often, if your libido(sex drive) is high, using a bigger sex toy, is not going to help.As long as you satisfy yourself every time, you should be alright. As you grow up it will get better, i promise.Remember masturbating is a natural thing, and it's okay. But using a toy then takes it onto the next level, and i think you're too young for that anyway!You're brother can't actually buy you one, he needs to be 18 by the way:)Like i said, just do it more often, and make sure you satisfy yourself everytime. It's just your hormones, whatever you do, DO NOT have sex.At some point it may seem like a good idea, it isn't.I made the mistake of having sex at about your age, and i really regret it, although i was so sure at the time.I wish i would have saved myself for someone special, and i can't even rememeber my first time either, because it was illegal it was rushed and i have no memory of it but that :SHope i've helped you!xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2011): Yes ask your brother to buy you a vibrator. i had one at 14 and loved it. it was my best friend and still is. enjoy.
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