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female
age
30-35,
*iceprincessx
writes:I know you’re all going to think I’m being childish here, but please hear me out. I’m 18, and very mature for my age. Last year, I met my college lecturer, and we hit it off straight away. There was one point though where I got close to this boy and my teacher started being harsh to me and him. The same week I finished it with the boy and we drifted apart, and my teacher started being nice again. Whenever a boy at my college got close to me or flirted, he would get very moody with me. I got the tag name of teachers pet, because he would let me get off with everything. I would find him staring at me from the other side of the room.He is always complimenting me, for example one day I came in with a different hairstyle and he was saying how lovely it was and touching it. Then someone else had theirs done, and he didn’t bother saying anything to her. He’s always touching/flicking my hair and saying how nice my perfume smells. I have him this year and we have gotten closer. One time something was upsetting me and he told me, they have to go through him to get to me. He’s very protective of me, and at first I thought he saw me as a daughter figure, but now it seems that he wants something more. He knows that I fancy him (well last year) and he made it worse by getting closer.There are so many other things he does, but I’m not going to bore you any longer. We do flirt a lot, especially the whole bickering thing that students have in high school/college. I’m just confused about what this teacher wants. Does this guy have a crush on me, or is he just being a teacher? Thank you for readingUPDATE:So I'm writing the next part of the question as it's been like 4-5weeks now. It's kinda getting a bit crazy now as one of my friends likes me and my teacher isn't that happy about it. He's even warned the boy to back off from me which I think is stupid, as this Is my personal life! even though I've made it clear I dont like my friend back. My teacher gets really jealous when guys approach or I talk about them and starts asking all these questions. Then giving me random compliments saying how pretty I am :/.I still catch him staring at me especially when I'm around with male friends. So what is this strange behaviour? From what I can see he has feelings for me but I need your opinion from the outside. Thank you for reading
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2011): perhaps you should report this behaviour it is bothering you.Or at least be firm and tell him to back off. Good luck young lady
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