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*lonewithnothing
writes:My girlfriend of 3 years just moved out and i find out last night that there is no chance that "we will get back together right now". She says she still loves me but she doesn't know if she is in love with me right now. We were engaged at one time but we called it off to work on our problems, two years later we buy a house together and 9 months later this happens. I can't let go because i'm in love with her so much. I tell her that everytime i see her but should i keep a positive attitude that we will marry each other one day and tell her that so she will think i'm confident? I don't have the highest confident in myself. I didn't look at her wedding dress because i told her before she moved out that i would see it on her someday and she said "we'll see". I told her last night that i was confident that we will get married someday and she said that "she'd been working on my confidence every since we got married" does that mean she liked my comment or not?
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reader, alonewithnothing +, writes (4 October 2010):
alonewithnothing is verified as being by the original poster of the questionEverytime i talk to her i always bring up me and her but the last time i did she just says that "it's hard to talk about it right now because everything is still fresh and it makes me upset and she doesn't like seeing me like that". I have seen her one other time after i posted this question and that was Saturday when she came over to get more of her stuff. She made small talk with me so i didn't push the subject of me and her. I want her to know how much she means to me but i don't know when to tell her or even when she wants to hear it. Does she need space from me?
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reader, Callmewifey +, writes (1 October 2010):
 I don't understand if you are married than give the relationship your all before throwing in the towel. If you are still just a couple don't waste to much of your time on a woman who is not giving it her all believe me you will loose time and possible get hurt even more than you have bargained for
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reader, SceneXaddicted +, writes (1 October 2010):
 I am not sure what she meant by that comment, you should try to speak with her. I have lived with my boyfriend for 2 years and it takes a toll on you. I have never had to deal with the things I do today. The first year is most def the hardest. Just give her space. That is all you can do. If you truely love her, you will accept her happiness no matter the form it comes in. By her seeing that you are still there, it could open her eyes to what she has.
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