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*allmewifey
writes: Me and My boyfriend have been together for 6 years we had a falling out last year due to his craving for woman and his dishonesty so we broke up for three months and than got back together needless to say we are about to have a baby girl. Just recently he revealed to me that he may have became the father of twins and he wants to know if they are his children. I don't wanna seem selfish but this is a lot for me to handle, what should I do?
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reader, DenimandLace44 +, writes (30 September 2010):
Is this a boyfriend or husband? Its going to take a lot of talking to get thru this. A lot of remorse and recommitment to you from him, and a lot of patience and forgiveness from you. Only you can decide if what you two share is worth it. Im sorry for your pain, good luck hunny.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 September 2010):
You've got to let him find out whether they are his. This affects you and your own child very much. Money, meetings, his twins visiting etc. This is all stuff that you need to plan for now, and the only way to do that is through a DNA test to make sure. Both you and he need to know
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