A
female
age
30-35,
*ove forever
writes:Hi....I liked this guy G for a while. We dated unofficially....then he hurt me a lot and I ignored him....I still like him a lot. I just found out he has an official relationship....Should I just "vanish" and do what I do to supress my feelings or tell him I like him still? Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (30 September 2010):
 What can I say... it sounds you have already made up your mind, and you just wanted someone to tell you : Yesss !Go for it!
I am afraid that it won't be me. I think that after guy A that hurt you, and guy G that hurt you too,...it would be time for someone who is not likely to hurt you. And that is single ...
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female
reader, love forever +, writes (30 September 2010):
love forever is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe have liked each other for two yrs.....and unofficially because of me dating A, a guy that hurt me
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (30 September 2010):
If he likes you so much, why has he not left his gf to be with you ?...
But,forget the gf. Think about the rest : you dated "unofficially ". Why unofficially ? Then he hurt and ignored you, and he is with someone else now.
Suppose you could snatch him from his gf, -does it sounds like a promising situation to you ?.....
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reader, love forever +, writes (30 September 2010):
love forever is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo...he gets me....we flirted a lot when we forgave each other.
and the girl told me to kill the feeling or myself....and I like love this guy, he likes me back cuz he told my bff that an hr ago....
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (30 September 2010):
He is in a relationship ( on top of having hurt and ignored you in the past ).
What would you accomplish by telling him that you still like him ?.. What would you get ?...His simpathy ?...Improbable. The "best" it could come out - maybe he would make you his plan b, or sexual spare tyre.
You deserve better, don't you ?
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