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writes:Hey everybody,Well here it goes. I currently been with my gf for 3 years now and we have had a ton of ups and downs. In my opinion high school drama. But we had a kid together shes the best thing that ever happened to me. shes 17 months now and just plain out awesome. she looks just like me too(poor kid). the problem is my gf grew up with some issues. no dad he skipped out when she was young. not mention her parents are 36-37. and shes 20. and there are some more issues there that will take me a day to write. but thats besides the point. we moved into a condo when the baby was born we lasted there like 8 months because it got to expensive. so we moved into my house with my parents. well that didnt work either because my mom and her butted heads every now and then. so we had to leave so were back at the same condo where we started because my mom told me she doesnt like my gf and she heard her say that. so with all that drama going on my gf hates my mom with a passion. and tells me everyday its annoying and it gets old after the 29318328th time she said it. i feel like im torn apart here. like im in my relationship to make it work for me and her and my kid but my gf breaks my balls whenever my mom calls me up to say hi or to invite me over because she wants to see the baby. i cant take the drama anymore. i mean its really old now. i choose not to get in the middle of it but its still a burden i have to deal with. my mom is a control freak by the way and i can completely understand why my gf is pissed and doesnt want anything to do with her but then again.. shes still my mom. but i feel like if this doesnt get better anytime soon this wont work. and in a way i dont want that especially for my kids sake. please help i need some real advice here. thanks!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 October 2010):
 What a horrible situation to be in you poor fella. Well first of you need to sit down with your gf and explain to her how you feel, tell her you understand why she doesnt like your mum but at the end of the day she is your mum and that your gf is hurting you by continously talking bad about her, you need to tell your gf to respect the fact that your mum brought you in to this world and that she is part of the package, so ask her to make a slight effort to be nice to her. At the end of the day your mum deserves to see her grandchild. Your girlfriend obviously didnt have a stable background so maybe she doesnt understand you being part of a family unit, but you need to tell her this is driving you crazy and hurting you like mad. good luck
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