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26-29,
anonymous
writes: I've fallen in love with this girl that I enjoy spending timw with, and when I asked her out to homecoming she said yes. The problem I'm having is that her mom hates me for being "lazy" (when ever senice i knew that i loved her i've been trying my best at school when ever she isn't in my head, for a future i'm wishing for) and she (her mom) also hates my cuz for bullying her (the girl i like) when she was young (they still hate her). I'm scared of two things. Her having to feel the same way I feel (having to choOse between family and her) and her saying no when i ask her to go on more dates (she only sees the homecoming as a friend thing).The main reason I don't want her to feel the split between families is because she lost her dad when she was young. I just don't know if i should just try to forget or ask her out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010): Well. I think the problem here is that this girls mom obviously has the wrong idea about you. If you really like this girl you need to take the time to get to know her, and by doing this her mum will understand that your not just thinking like every other teenage boy out. Maybe try and talk to her mom, tell her that you really care about her daughter and that you would really like to be given an opportunity to take her out and get to know her. You need to be really mature about this situation and use your head! Also maybe you should speak to your cousin about what happened and ask him/her to apologise. I wish you the best of luck! Love can be a beautiful thing if its persued correctly!
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