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writes:I know my girlfriend is the one for me. I know someday she and I will be married and we'll have kids together. I can feel it in my bones and I just... KNOW. Problem is...Both of her best girl friends are married; one even has a kid on the way, her cousin just announced his engagement and another friend of hers did, too. She and I have only been together three months and she's talking about marriage and children like it's going to happen next week!I love my woman to death, I'm never gonna leave her, and I'd do anything for her and I know she'd do the same for me. But she's really gotta calm down. How do I achieve that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010): Oh Hun, she has got the marriage and baby bug!! It seems to be quite catchy and when one friend gets married or has a baby they infect all the other friends....
Tell your gf you are not ready for marriage or a child, and that these are things in the distant future. Unfortunately all these girls see is the pretty wedding gown and all the ceremony then the cute and cuddly baby! That is the world of the TV sitcoms - not the real world.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 October 2010):
Tell her you're not ready for marriage and kids, and would prefer to focus on ensuring you can offer her a decent lifestyle with a good home, cars, holidays etc before you make any huge commitments like that. You're right to wait.
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