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writes:Okay, so my friend and I were talking about other people that thought we liked them but we just acted that way to be nice. There is this person that used to be really mean to me and now I don't like them but they think I'm their best friend. I metioned this without telling her the name of the person I was talking about. She keeps pestering me to tell her who I was talking about and I told her I would tell her tomorrow. I'm pretty sure she won't tell anyone, but I'm scared she will and my relationship with her (we are good friends) and the friend I don't really nice that I hang out with because I'm trying to be nice to will end. I don't know what to do. Should I tell her who it is (she sort of knows that person) or make up a name and tell her that she goes to a different school? Help!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 October 2010):
 Ok well first of, why are you friends with someone you dont like? you are fooling yourself and bein false and two faced if you dont like someone dont be friends with them simple as, as for the girl that you like dont lie to her, you should never lie to friends, but its probably best not to tell her either because it may just blow back up in your face, so if you really want to be true to yourself tell her that you respect and trust her but that you dont feel right telling her the persons name as you dont want anyone to get hurt, if she is a good friend then she will stop there and not bother you by asking again, as for this other girl, stop hanging around with her if you dont like her its really unfair.
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