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anonymous
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and we have had many many highs and equal lows. I've always been a very friendly girl to other guys (but have never flirted or cheated) but he has never liked it.I love him incredibly.In the past year, a close friend of 6 years told me he likes me and because we go to the same school+ college (bf does not) we have always been really close. I never told my close friend about my boyfriend, but kept turning him down. Eventually, when me and the bf remained on an all time low for a long time, and things were never getting better, I started to grow towards all the happy thoughts and feelings that my close friend brought with him and started to consider if he could ever be better for me.We never did anything sexual. I quickly realised he could never replace my boyfriend and decided to start keeping my distance. Not long after, my bf found out about it all and said that I had cheated and now he can never trust me and hates me. He says that I am denying that I had feelings for my close friend, that I started liking him. And therefore, its a betrayal of trust. I keep saying I didn't like him, just that I started considering him, but my bf says even that is enough reason for him to never get back with me again.I love him dearly and if anything, this expeience has just made me love him even more and I regret it all.What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010): Every relationship has ups and downs. Both parties need to work on it. Breaking someone "trust" is a biggest crime.
Just give him some time and space and hope he comes back.
Best wishes.
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reader, ziad  +, writes (1 October 2010):
you can't do anything even he will be back to you, he wont trust you you never break apart and forget each others sorry but its the only way :/ good luck
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reader, Callmewifey  +, writes (1 October 2010):
 I do believe that a person can grow to Love someone if they are in the company of that individual often. The fact that you eliminated to tell your friend about your boyfriend (someone who you truly Love) raises an eyebrow to me. Also for you to even consider your friend to be a prospect as your boyfriend your current boyfriend has every right to distrust you.
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