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writes:A guy going to my college facebook friended me over the summer. I accepted his facebook friendship, and then he began to chat with me on there. He gave me his number and told me to text him...I felt bad if I didn't text him, so I did just to be nice. We texted a lot over the summer. Turns out, he is in one of my classes. It's really awkward. I don't want to be friends in real life (or anything more for that matter!) and I feel like I led him on. I told him nothing more is going to happen, and he said that I'm just one girl out of the thousands going here. But yet, he still texts me and facebook IMs me! I don't want to talk to him anymore!!! What do I do? He is so annoying.
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reader, BettyBoup  +, writes (1 October 2010):
 If you don't want to talk to the lad, don't talk to him. Stop replying to his texts and IMs, or just give him one word answers. He'll either get the hint or give up. As he said, you're just one girl of thousands at your college, so I'm sure he'll find other people to make friends with. He's probably just being over chatty because he's a bit lonely and wants to make friends before he goes to college, and he obviously likes talking to you. You havn't led him on, you've just been chatting to him. Friendships fade all the time, so I'm sure he'll be able to cope if you stop corrisponding with him. Why talk to the guy if you don't like him or want to be real life friends?
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reader, Callmewifey +, writes (1 October 2010):
 Sounds to me like you got a bugga boo on ya hands!! Ignore all of his responses and he should eventually get the clue this way you eliminate the idea of a possible relationship or stronger friendship occuring.
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