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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey, so there is this guy that I met and we go to school together. I am not sure if hes into me, because I introduced him to my friends and he sometimes hangs out with us at lunch, but he doesn't flirt at all with me, but he has complimented me many times on my looks, etc. He has also asked me before if I wanted to do this school thing with him (but he never mentioned again later on), but has never actually asked me to hang out. Lately hes ignored me though and i'm not sure why. i am sometimes on and off on him (where i talk to him and sometimes dont really bother much, but im always nice when I do), I have also, when ive seen him just said like one word or two, but i never meant it in a bad way, its just annoying that he doesn't continue till I ask him something. Maybe hes shy or just dense? I think he is, he just completely stops. so im kinda confused...
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (30 September 2010):
 Ok, then show him some interest,give him a bit of encouragement ( hey , I said "some"- don't go and start drooling all over him, lol ) and see what happens. If he likes you, I am sure he 'll overcome shyness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou guys are right. thanks so much!
the thing is though, I also have never
shown him any interest. I am not sure
if that is part of the problem...
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (30 September 2010):
Sorry,I think he is simply not that interested. He does not flirt, he ignores you, to have to grill him to get a couple of words out of him.... it does not sound too promising to me because, like I always say, mixed signals are no signals. Mixed signals mean someone who is undecided or hesitating , and ...who wants to make do with a lukewarm attention.
He could be very shy ,perhaps. So ? You are not his mom, and he is not a toddler going to his first birthday party- it's not your job to make things all easy and nice and warm and fuzzy for him. You show your interest - then he has to do his part.
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