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*utterflys
writes:Last week i made a big mistake , i had a 1 night stand with a male friend of mine.Since that night he has asked me to move in with him, told me he will treat me like a queen.I really don't know what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Butterflys +, writes (20 October 2010):
Butterflys is verified as being by the original poster of the question2 weeks ago i had a one night stand with a close friend of mine, we have been friends for about 4yrs now.
There would be times when we spent a few hrs chating together
and i would think to myself i wonder if we would be great in a realationship?
But after the one night stand, he has become, obessive, very needy, jelous and its just not the same anymore.
He even wants my name tattoed on his arm!
When i go out on my own , he txt's me about 15-20 txts and rings me about 5 or more times....
Its really spooking me out.
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reader, studmuffin  +, writes (1 October 2010):
You need to tell him right away it was just 1 night and that's it, you gave him sex now he thinks if you move in with him he will get more, unless of course you plan to have sex with him if u move in with him. But basically it sounds like he just wants a fuckbuddy
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (30 September 2010):
 sounds like he thought it meant more than you did. you need to talk to him about this pronto.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010): Dear one night stand-er...you realize your mistake and that's the most important thing, I don't know if you're really close friends or not but there's a lot of other factors to consider ... Are you pregnant? Are you sure you're not pregnant?? How would he react if you are? Are you ready to enter a relatio ship with this person? Is he the type that you see yourself with down the road? Will he treat you well? How does he treat his other friends?? Will you stay friends even if it doesn't work out...and if it doesn't work out and you end it badly,is it worth losing him over?? I know I'm supposed to give you more answers than questions but hopefully with your honest answering of these questions you will find the answer you're looking for! All the best, AA
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