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writes:My wife has always been very conservative in the bed, but lately she has done dirtier things in the bed and I don't know where she gets the ideas from. She deepthroats, she spits on my tool when going down, she asked for a facial the other night, etc.I like the renaissance, but it makes me wonder where is she learning these things? Is it possible she is cheating? Reply to this Question
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reader, DenimandLace44 +, writes (6 October 2010):
 Yes there have been some good thoughts here. I don't think it means that she is cheating. Maybe her girlfriends are giving her ideas, maybe she is looking online to find things to spice things up...thats what I did. Unless there is something else to make you suspicious, then I just wouldn't go there in my mind. I would just relax and enjoy that she wants to do these things with you! ;)
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reader, sweetkisses-143 +, writes (5 October 2010):
 Sounds like she is trying to spice up your sex life. I was very conservative too. But I wanted to please my man. So what did I do? I hit up google and someone told me about youporn.com like a youtube but for porn lol A lot of it is pretty dirty. But I did watch a few things and tried them out. It blew my mans mind. So every now and again I'll google and try to find new things. She is probably just trying to make you happier. I could be wrong, but I know my intentions were genuine. So that means its possible for hers to be too :)If you are seriously worried I think trancedrhythmear gave good advice. Don't accuse her, just let her know how much you like and was wondering where she was getting all these kinky ideas. That it turns you on. Good luck!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (30 September 2010):
 It sounds like she's been watching porn. By any chance do you have porn easily accessible in your home? Spitting is something I have only seen occur in porn to be honest, no real people do that. So definitely, she's been watching porn, and in that case believes that this is something you will enjoy.
So, what is it that is keeping you from simply asking her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010): Hey bud!
Yeah I would not rule that out as a possibility. Then again, I dont wanna sound naive...she could be watching some porn, or even reading magazines...the media does have its influences on ppl. Id def confront and ask her whats up but do not accuse...just say "I like youre wild ideas...where did they come from? they are turning me on"...somethin to that effect.
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