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writes:how do you give ''head'' or blow jobs?? i mean i have had sex and stuff i have never given head before though?! help mee out please!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010): Here is a good primer:
http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sfo/1183264821.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010): I'm christian. And i find this very offencive. Dont do it. He will only use you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010): Decide first off if he can cum in your mouth. If not, tell him to warn you when he's going to cum so you can pull away and finish him with your hand. If you've said no before hand and he does it anyway, he's no gentleman and doesn't deserve a second chance.
Figure out how much of it you can put in your mouth without gagging. Put your hand on the shaft so that only that much can get in. Decide whether you want to be in control -- the guy will have seen porn where *he's* controlling things by holding your head and moving. If you don't want that, make it clear that his hands have nothing to do with any bj you're prepared to give. Shouldn't be a problem, as most (decent) guys are simply grateful that it's happening at all. At least at first be careful to keep your teeth out of the equation at all -- keep your lips wrapped around your teeth as he's very sensitive and vulnerable. Some guys are into pain toward the end, so your teeth can (gently) come into play then, but that's pretty advanced stuff.
Use your tongue -- in particular on the underside of the head, that's where the nerves are concentrated.
Bottom line -- he's grateful that you're doing it at all. If you're in anything like a decent relationship, you can talk later about what was good and what wasn't.
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