A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:HiMy bf yesterday informed me that he cant marry me since his parents wont accept me as their daughter-in-law since im elder to him by 3 yrs and divorcee (no kids though). we are seeing each other for past 1 yr, we started off as friends and then fell for each other. He says i can be with him till he gets married. Before he asked me to wait for few more months, he would talk to his parents and convince them. Now he doesnt even want to talk to them. I am devastated, i cried my eyes out yesterday. I loved him so much. i dont know what to do other than to dump him. I dont want to do that, but it looks like thats the only option for me. I cant be the other girl. Please someone advice how to make him marry me. i dont want to lose him, we are so good together, we always finish each others sentences. i always gave him space when he needed, never created any drama, was always understanding. i dont know where i went wrong.Please please someone advice.
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reader, BassiveMalls +, writes (30 September 2010):
 What the hell? Every time I read a post from India it's about something being forbidden that here is not only tolerated but completely normal. I respect the fact that there are different cultures in the world but I think India needs to get on board with at least tolerating a man marrying an older divorced women.It wouldn't be so bad if he had certain qualms with it - it is his choice, but his parents are influencing his decision. Why? Let him live his own life and make his own decisions.My only advice is to tell him to fuck what his parents think and do what he wants to. Maybe you guys should move to a place who's values are more... how do I put this - 21st Century?
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