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writes: Ok so im somewhat seeing this girl latetly she has been going out and drinking a lot she has a lot of guy friend and everything plus she is still inlove with her ex. she allways seems to treat me like crap after she sees him and its like she is embarassed being with me. I have a gut feeling she is hiding something from me again my gut was right when she slept with her ex and lied to me about it what should i do guys i really need your help I love her more than anything. we dated way back in the day my freshman year to be exact i dont want to loose her again what should i do
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reader, DenimandLace44  +, writes (30 September 2010):
 You asked for guys help. I'm not a guy, but I can tell you that this girl does not respect you. And she is not in love with you. She will continue this until you kiss her goodbye because you allow it. You need to find some strength, and respect yourself enough to walk away. FTBR is dead on the money.
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (30 September 2010):
 I'm sorry but from what you've written, I'm inclined to think that she doesn't love you as you love her. She's still in love with her ex, she slept with her ex while seeing you and she's going out constantly and drinking without you. That gut feeling you have is a sort of intuition, if you feel there's something wrong, there probably is something wrong. I feel as if she will break your heart. I suggest you walk away. But, since you say you love her, sit her down and talk to her. Ask her if there's something she'd like to tell you. You never know til you ask right? Tell her what you wrote here: that you feel she's embarassed by you, and you feel that she still loves her ex...pay attention to her reactions, what she says. Your heart then can tell you to stay or go.
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