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I'm scared my boyfriend will get bored of me!

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Question - (30 September 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I'm scared my boyfriend will get bored of me.

we've been dating a year and in that time he has only been out once round the bars and nightclubs with his mate.

He goes to see his friend once a week on an afternoon when he finishes work early.

Once in a blue moon he will play pool with a guy from work but not often at all.

Me on the other hand, when he has his kids (every alternative weekend) i get to go out with my friends on the saturday he has his kids.

Other than that we do a lot of stuff together. I love his company though. And he says he loves mine. Sometimes when he has his children on a sunday (on a weekend that's not his weekend to have them) I will do my own thing.

He says he doesn't crave being out with other men, but it'd be nice once in a while. He always says he lost a lot of friends when he was with his ex and his son was born.

He says he could go and see some old friends but he realises he needs to make more of an effort but cannot be bothered.

I just feel really insecure like he is going to bored of me unless he gets a bit more to do for himself. Even though I hate being apart from him really.

we go out together on the weekends.

We don't live together, he comes round to me every night at 7 pm.

is there a chance this relationshp will die a death through not having enough time apart?

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