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writes:ok right im 16 years old and ive never had a boyfriend im not hidius looking and im a bit on the chubby side but all through high school no boys have ever really been interested in me i dont know what to do and how to get a boyfriend please help me and can i have any tips or advice that can help me get one ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2010): I personally dont have a type and high school boys, if theyve remianed the same are awfully superficial. Most wouldnt know a real good woman if they pulled their pants down.
Head up. Stop looking definitely. That only creates more stress and pressure on urself. You def dont need that. Focus on ur studies, forget boys lol. Guys at that age are only interested in one thing anyway and last thing u need is some sort of distraction or bad influence. Things happen when you least expect them too and meeting a guy will happen. Just be patient and kudos to u for coming on here and asking for help.
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reader, goodbyehello93  +, writes (7 October 2010):
 I am exactly where you are! I'm a bit chubby, not ugly, and etc. but I agree with the other advice here.
stop. looking.
By doing that, you create awkward meetings and tense situations with the opposite sex so just relax and just think of them as all friends.
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (30 September 2010):
 stop looking. Thats the best advice, focus on yourself and other things that you can get that you have control over, like good grades, a part time job, set your goals for life and with that your confidence will go up and you will start attracted the guys.
You can also consider your already guy friends and see if there is a potential spark with any of them. Or you can put yourself out there more and flirt your way to a man.
Or you can ask a guy out yourself
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