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writes:Hi! So I just turned 18. I have a question for everyone. I would do this not as anonymous...but I kind of want no one to know who I am....ya I know that's weird. Here goes. Once again I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend. I've had guys like me and I didn't like them. I've kind of been in love with the same boy since 6th grade. It took me until 10th grade to actually realize that I loved this guy and...I'm scared. I need advice. Yes, I talk to this boy I can tell him anything and I want to finally take the next step and tell him to his face, not tex or facebook...to his face. He is one of my best friends. But lately we barely talk, I don't see him much in school, we are so busy with our senior year that theirs no time to hang out. I should also say something last year I moved to Texas to live with my dad because I had problems with my mom. And I left. I cried of course, but didn't let him know. While I was gone he would text me telling me how much he missed me and once he even said he loved me one night. Then the next morning he called me and told me his friend had taken his phone and put that. I was devastated. He even said that he never saw what his friend said and I would not tell him what was said, I just laughed and faked my voice, he even said his friend deleted all his text messages. I don't know if he was lying or telling the truth and I'm scared to ask him. Also I'm a virgin and I know that if he asked I would probably give it to him. I know I shouldn't, but I just know that I will and that's the truth, honestly I'd rather give my virginity to someone I really know and care about then someone I barely know(he's a virgin too).The main reason why I'm afraid to tell him how I feel is that I'm over weight and I know theirs some girls like me who are and have had a boyfriend. But Sometimes I feel like he won't be with me because I am. I know I'm pretty I've heard it so many times from people that I've actually started to see that. I just want to know if I should tell this guy how I feel and I'm a wimp, I don't want to get hurt. I know I will..but it doesn't mean I want to get hurt. So can someone please give this new 18 year old some boy advice? :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 October 2010):
 Well he obviously cares alot about you to be one of your friends in the first place, so thats half the battle, and as for your weight this doesnt matter am sure he likes you for you and not what size you are. So pluck up the courage to tell him you like him as more than a friend. hopefully he feels the same and hunni if he doesnt then am sure you will meet someone else, good luck.
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