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She's married and unaware I love her! What can do about this?

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Question - (30 September 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 January 2012)
A male age 36-40, *atthew-matt writes:

I am in love with a woman who is married I have known her for about 7 years she was single when I met her but had no feelings for her she has been married for only 4 months and about 5 days ago I had a dream about her (I won't say what happend in the dream as this is not a porn story) since then I have had feelings for her the dream seemed so real I have been trying stop thinking about her but I can't. she don't know about this and I don't intend for her to find . also she is my sisters friend and the only people who know about this are the people reading this can someone please advise me what to do

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A male reader, matthew-matt  +, writes (9 January 2012):

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I know it's a late reply but I am now over her and have been for ages I don't usually believe in god but I thought it won't hurt to pray so I said in my pray about thou shall not commit adaltety please give me the Gidence to get over her and when a saw her next there was no feelings what so ever :-)

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A male reader, matthew-matt  +, writes (5 October 2010):

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I know You are both right but I can't move on and still be in contact with her if I lose contact (block her on windows live remove her on facebook ect) she is going to wonder why I have known and spoke to her for 7 years and suddenly "fallen out with her" and I don't know what to say if she asks

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010):

Do both her and yourself a favor - don't say a word to her and move on. She's married! Think about it this way - if you were married would you want some dude telling your wife he loves her? Surely not. There are many fish in the sea, and this one has already been caught. Nothing good can come from dwelling on her.

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