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writes:My wife gets big ideas and they cost a lot of money. These ideas involve significant amounts of risk and also breaking the law sometimes. I'm just a regular guy and I object. As a result she told me we're getting divorced and she's paying me out. She's paid me out and I've bought another house but we're still living together. One of our friends told me she doesn't really want to get get divorced. It's hard to talk to her because all she can think about is her big ideas. What should I do?
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reader, MikeEa1 +, writes (1 October 2010):
MikeEa1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks guys it is good to hear some advice. People I know don't seem to give me advice. I guess I still love her. There are a lot of things that keep us together, but although I feel this behaviour is a dealbreaker, I would like to go back to the old days.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (30 September 2010):
 I guess it comes down to WHAT DO YOU WANT?
Sounds like she is a borderline criminal and if she gets caught, you will be on hot water too.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 September 2010):
Would you prefer divorce? Or would you prefer to have your house taken away by the state and wind up in prison because of her? If she's taking risks and breaking the law, before divorcing you because of your objections, then she's not a good woman at all. You don't want to wind up as an accessory.
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reader, DenimandLace44 +, writes (30 September 2010):
 If it's illegal don't do it. If you are uncomfortable with it, don't do it. You should move out. Someday she will get caught and you better hope you are gone. Good luck.
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