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writes:Help me out with this...I know I've screwed up, don't know what to do to fix this. I met a man about 8 months ago, it was only intended to be a one night stand on both our parts. And we never saw each other again for 5 months, then for whatever reason we got back together, for another one night stand. The problem for me is I like him as a person and would rather hang out with him. I understand that he is the type of guy who is playing the field and that doesn't bother me at all...we've even discussed some of these issues. I just want to take myself out of being one of the women he sleeps with to just being a friend. I think this is an impossible request on my part because he will probably never see me that way, but I'd like to know what others think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the responses...I know you are right, I guess I was just wondering if someone had actually ever had made that transition. I decided to tell him outright that I was only interested in friendship, that I would not be comfortable being one of the girls. I don't suspect I will ever hear from him again. I did ask him to remove me from his contacts so I could delete him on my messenger account. I'm the type of person who occasionally sends a note out saying hi, asking how things are going. Figured it would be best if there was no way I could contact him at all, don't want to take the chance that I'll say hi one day and end up back here again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010): I will save you some time....forget it, it will never happen. This guy will constantly want to get into your pants no matter what you do or say. Once a guy has gone there, he will think of nothing else. You were never friends with this guy...you were fuck buddies. You can't go back. Trust me...been there and tried that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010): O, i think you answered your own question. Ussualy you get what you see, and what you see is a player who sleeps around, and u are one of the girls. Thats the life he choosen, but you don't have to be a part of it, if you don't want. Unless its suitable for you to sleep with him once in a while, then do it, if you are looking for a friendship, look somewhere else, otherwise you'll be heart broken
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