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writes: dear cupid,a little over a week ago, i met this guy in my history class at college. we made a little bit of small talk before class started and even after the lecture started, he kept whispering stuff to make me laugh. then, he passed me a note to introduce himself and ask if i was single and stuff like that, and by the end of class, he had asked me for my number. it couldn't have been more than five minutes before he texted me, and we talked for hours at a time throughout the rest of the day. we found out that we have a lot in common (the most important thing being that we both love God and work with youth groups--him as an actual youth pastor and me as a youth sponsor), and it seemed like we were really hitting it off. he kept saying all this cute, flirty stuff--like he was really excited that he had met me. we saw each other during a break between classes the next day and texted a little more as the day went on.now comes the confusing part. i went all weekend long without hearing from him--up until sunday night, when he carried on a conversation of two texts. he talked to me a little after class on wednesday, and he seemed happy to see me, but when i texted him later on, he never responded.the question i'm trying to get across is, what is this guy's deal? does he like me, or is he just playing games? and is it stupid for me to keep trying to talk to him? what should i do?~confused~
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010): This guy is playing games. The fact you hit it off a lot in one day is a sign to us men that you COULD, but not, necessarily be desperate. This guy feels this and knows youll chase if youre interested. I dont know why men do this and it pisses me off. Lady, if I like you, you'll damn well know it. Im the kind that throw women up against lockers and kiss them and tell them I want to be with them. This guy sees youre available and this says to us men "okay, shes always available so I dont have to text her this second or any time soon"...cause he knows if he responds, youll respond back at the drop of a hat. Lay off this guy, once he sees youre not as available as he thinks, then he'll perhaps genuinely want you and not be so tempted to play his game. Good luck.
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reader, Torance123  +, writes (30 September 2010):
sweetheart im really sorry you are going though this because i went though this with a guy also i fell so hard for him my advice to you is that you just need to leave this guy alone and sooner or later he will wonder wth is wrong with her why did she stop texting me.so basicaly im saying move on you can find better then him.
hope this really helps you out. GOOD LUCK WITH EVERY THING YOU DESERVE BETTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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