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writes:{Moderator note: two questions from the same OP combined}1.) ok, so this is the thing: sometimes when alone with my girlfriend i'm not getting an erection!!I do in the beginning when we start kissing each others lips and neck,but when we get naked i lose the erection and i feel uncomfortable and my gf gets mad,she says how can you not get an erection when a girl next to you is completely naked and you dont feel horny ...she thought the reason was because i masturbate too much but i want to be sure and expect you guys to tell me cause' obviously you know much more than me!I'm 18 years old, I masturbate minimum 2times a day everyday,and this is the first girl I had sex with..please help me fix my problem and find a solution!2.) Can i get aids or other diseases if i dont use a condom with a girl that never had sex before with another guy??i didnt have sex with anyone else before either.......
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010): Simple mate, you have to relax.
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reader, bube +, writes (1 October 2010):
bube is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI will try to do that and hope to improve my current situation
Thank you very much.
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reader, OBAINOBILLZ  +, writes (1 October 2010):
i really wounder why you would masturbate twice daily when you have a girl friend thats not shy or scared of having sex.
you should stop masturbating because ur body is becoming accustomed to it ans even when you do get an erection you may not be able to last long. so be wise or you end up ruining ur sex life.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (30 September 2010):
 Yeah masturbating 2x a day is definitely contributing. You should cut back so you actually still feel horny when you see her.
No you won't get a disease if she's really a virgin, but there's the chance she's not, and you should always use a condom to prevent pregnancy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010): You are much to young to have ED. The problem is I guarantee 100 percent mental. Of course masterbating 2 X times a day 7 days a week does not help. Try to keep it to once a week if possible, and try not to at least 2 to 3 days before intercourse. If you can masterbate and get hard than the problem is not physical. Also her putting pressure on you does not help. You should talk to her.
First thing, show her how you like your penis to be stroked, guide her hand to show her. Maybe try positions like 69 where both of you can get pleasure, and when you are hard than you can engage in sex.
As far as your question about the condom, you should always use a condom so that she does not get pregnant.
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