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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am in a relationship with a wonderful gorgeous man but I might have screwed up any future for us. I was gone on a trip for my internship for a couple of months. I ran into my boyfriend's ex who told me that my boyfriend was done with me because he was seeing her while I was away and he realizes that he loves her and that she's pregnant. Since we had a fight earlier and she also knew about that, I believed her.Instead of confronting with him about her, I went to another man that I had a previous relationship with 75% sexual and slept with him. But then my boyfriend confronted me about me avoiding him and revealed that his ex was lying about their arrangement and pregnancy and gave me proof. Even with that, I went back to my ex and continued to sleep with him. Now I am pregnant and I don't know who the father is. There's a good chance of the baby looking like his father so my man will know whether I tell him or not. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010): errm tell him, besides the fact you might be exposing him to disease, you are lying to him, dont screw up this childs future too, fix what you messed up, the future starts now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010): Yup you probably screwed it up. Consider an abortion. If you keep it get a dna test and tell the father of the child. Go from there.
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