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writes:Hi. My question might sound stupid but i'm just asking people's opinions b/c i'm not sure anymore of my own.I'm going on a vacation with my best fried to london next week (i've known her since high school)and now weve decided that maybe we might want to go to paris for a few hours via the chunnel..it sounds like fun but it is a little pricey. I told my BF and he started asking me to consider waiting to go to Paris bc he wants to go with me oneday. He works for the airlines so it's not far fetched that we could go a a weekend oneday. Anyway he thinks its a romantic city and would love to spend time there with me for my first time there. I told him that although i understand his reasoning that i still wanted to go and it would be a different experience for us if we went another time. I want to add that he's already been there for a few hours as well years ago and did get to see some of Paris before me. Also last March I went to Italy with my BF and originally planned this London trip to be before it but he kept saying that he wanted my Europe experience to be with him first so i postponed this trip until now. (He did tell me that he planned to propose in Italy in March which is why he asked me to postpone this trip but due to financial issues it diddn't happen yet but thats irrevealent.I dont know ...is he being selfish here or am i not considering his feelings? I would like to go and my friend would like to go for the day and I would love to go back oneday with my BF or maybe fiance and as i tell him all the time it would be a completely different experience with him...we'd actually go to see other places besides the eiffel tower and louvre...any thoughts? Thanks for your help!!
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reader, Cgblake487  +, writes (22 December 2010):
Coming from a guy, one of the best feelings in the world to us guys is knowing that our girl has fun when they are with us. We are simple to please, and also simple to hurt. I think he might feel that you wanting to go with a friend is signifying that you would rather spend time with other people over him.....if you really want to go with your friend sit him down and tell him how much he means to you. He should like to know how deep the feelings are, and he might even allow you to go if he knows how much you feel for him.
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