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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:i am in a relationship with a married man about 20yrs older than i am.at first he always condem his wife he alway told me that im d only that can make him happy hes just wit her because of the kids.eventually i moved in with him but in a different apartment and we took a kind of marriage oath.now everything is changing he values,respect n honour her so much more than me i know its his wife but y is he not treating me equally the same way since he says he loves me?is it because im not his legal wife?do u tink he had manipulated me right from the begining?should i walk out of this mess despite d fact im pregnant for him?im not happy.advice me
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (19 September 2010):
 Someone once told me : when a man stops making you smile, reflect. I took it to mean that once I didn't feel happy with someone, it was time to think about why. You're reflecting. He is not only married, but 20yrs older than you. Those are two BIG things that are doing the harm. Married men promise the earth, moon, and stars to their mistresses and of course, make them think they are unhappy with their wives. You're starting to see how you're treated with less consideration. I don't think you should stay with him. You deserve a man who is all yours, who will marry you and treat you with the love and care you need. Now, you have this baby to think of too. Did you tell the man you're pregnant? If yes, what did he say? I think he is manipulating you and you should walk away. But, again, your baby complicates things....
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