My boyfriend ignores me, and it doesn't make sense!

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

im really confused , and wondering if anyone can help me. i met my bf few month a go online, we talked on the phone and then decided to go on a date and it was great ! we both liked eachother so much and he was so sweet and carying; sex was also great. a month later the company he works for, transferred him to another state for a year , so he had to leave. i was really sad but he said that he wants me to be his girlfriend and he thinks this relationship is worth fighting for, so basically he said honey dont worry about it, i wanna be with u and distance wouldnt make any difference...but now since he moved there, i call him and he doesnt answer my calls, he just text me in the morning and say good morning , and thats all, if i dont text him, he doesnt talk. the other day, i got upset and told him what kind of gf/bf are we that the only way of communication bw us is 3-4 text per day! call me stupid but that doesnt make sense to me!! and he got so mad and said he is so busy with his job and he is tryin to adapt to the new environment , i said ok, but that seems like an excuse, because even in weekend, he text me that he is goin to a cigar bar to watch a game, and he doesnt even text me the whole day and when i text him or call him he ignores, i dont see his excuse, i never bug him during the week, i only wanna talk to him on the weekend but he doesnt even wanna spend few seconds to text me, but i see he logg in to his facebook everyday, and go out to bars , im really upset . plz tell me what to do

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