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writes:Am so confused, despite the fact i can help others with problems i just can't seem to sort my own problem.About a year ago i meet this lad on a night out, i really liked him but he didn't feel the say way. I later became best friends with him because he was one of my best friends friends, and we have been that way ever since. However things have changed since them, i started to date a friend of his of which i didn't know at the time, but it later came to light. My friend started to tell me stories about him at the start i didn't believe him but them i started to look out for the things he had said. I later broke up with my bf cause he accussd me of sleepin with my friends just because we were so close and said to say i was going with differnt people wen i went out. My best friend who i am still reali close with has now said to me the reason why he wanted me to break up with my bf was becasue he wanted me 2 be with him and that he liked me. I spent ages tryin to get over him and believe that all we could ever be is friends now i don't kw wat to do. He has always been there for me i don't want to mess it up and loose a best friend, jsut over a crush.Reali need some advice on wat to do, really confused about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010): I kmow it not easy to fimd how u truly feel. But deep down how do u feel. You need to follow what ur heart tells u. So just pretemd that it not ur problem and then u could figure it out that way. If he really is ur best friend then u should be able to tell him how u feel about the whole situation.
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