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writes:i went out with a guy for 3.5 yrs.. love of our lives (to each other)..we had a long distance relationship..i lived over there with him for 1.5 yrs.. msot amazing time. got to see how we are really face to face instad of over the phone etc...we broke up cuz he cudnt move here (family issues)..and i didnt want to initially move to Britain..but after being apart for months.. i came to the realization i dont wanna b without him. hes my everything.. i dont want to let this lve go.. i have never felt this way about someone ever.. i regret letting it go and he now says he does not want a relationship, especially one thats long distance... he says hes doing good in life now and gone back to school, living life.. we had an abrtion together as well. that really kills me and i cant seem to let him go for that reason too.. he says he cares nad loves me but doenst love me the same way i love him... so. im so lost.. will he come back to reality.. i feel he is someone so different now ? is he going thru the freedom phase and will he come back to me? i told him i will move there for him, and want a future there with him n start a family... not sure what to do next ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2010): aww guys thank for the input.. im just still so lost and do not know waht to do with myself.. he still ask me once in a while if im ok.. cuz ive been down about the abortions etc. but its hard to move on with him txtin or calling etc.. i cant resist but to pick up and talk to him.. i love him to much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2010): You won't be happy in a relationship where you love him more than he loves you. It seems to me that if he really loved you, he would want you to come back to Britain or he would move to Canada so you could be together. You need to give him some space, but it doesn't sound like there is much hope of him coming back to you. I'm sorry, but sounds like he has moved on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2010): Sorry love, from what I can gather it does not seem like you were the love of his life...it may be hard for you to come to terms with but atleast he told you honestly how he feels. I think that you will come back to reality soon and realise that everything happens for a reason. This old saying is true: "it's better to have loved and lost than not to have never loved at all" Now you know what love feels like and it will help you in the future when you meet new potential mates...
The baby you lost is safe with God, don't beat yourself up over the circumstances its life came to an end. Just pray and show God your heart, He is merciful and loves you. We are here to learn and grow so take all the events as something you learn and grow from. All the best!
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