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anonymous
writes: HELP!!! I am a 38 yr old wife for 13 years and mother of 4. I have a good guy for a husband that loves me to death. We have had several sex issues and I have had several affairs. We are now on a good path for working our marriage out, but we are still having a problem in the bedrrom.My husband is unable to satisfy me and I am tired of going through the motions to maintain our sex life. I have tried to talk, teach, show, walk through, and explain everything that I need from him in the bedroom. Now please understand that he wants to please me in bed, however he isn't able to last long enough and/or give me an orgasm. He has tried oral, fingering me, different postions, prolonged foreplay, you name it...we have tried it.Now in the past he used to state that I was a "boring lover". Since he stated that I have tried everything to keep him satisfied in the bedrrom with me (including swallowing, different postions, attempting anal, and several 3 somes). I am now fustrated that I have gone through hell and back to keep his interest only in me and him happy with our sex life. However I can't get the same back.I have now gotten to the point(again) that I want to find a past lover that I know can give me the physical pleasure that I am yearning for. I am now basicly the man in the relationship, I just want a good F@$% for about 1-2 hours every other week. I am now so bad that I can't concentrate on my day to day life. I logicly know this is wrong and feel really petty for it, however I have needs that need to be met. I have done everything to keep his met, now I feel the tables are reversed. What do I do???
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reader, sarahrose20 +, writes (12 September 2010):
i can see that you have tried a lot but have you tried masterbating during sex or using a vibrator at the same time hes penatrating you both are very effective
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2010): is it about his size or he just cant seem to know what to do in order to satusfy you?!!
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