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writes:I was with my boyfriend for three years. We had a beautiful child together and overnight he broke it off. I am so confused one week we were fine he said he loved me i told him i felt him slipping away and he said he loved me and his feeling has not changed then the next week he randomaly broke up with me. Since then he does not spek to me unless about baby. He acts as if we were never together. I try to tell him i love him and dont want this but he says he just fell out of love with me. i did nothing wrong and 100% sure and know for a fact there is no other girl. He wont talk to me he acts as if we had nothing how did he move on so quickly and would i ever be able to get him back?
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (11 September 2010):
 he told you straight up what was going on, he fell out of love with you. do you really want to be with a guy who changes his mind every two minutes anyway? yeah, maybe for the baby's sake but it sounds like he's still in the baby's life so pretty sure the kid will be okay cuz he'll still have a daddy. My best advice is to face the fact that he fell out of love with you, there really isn't anything you can personally do to change his mind except hope he changes it again, and if this continues as a pattern, I'd break up with him.
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reader, Universe Man +, writes (11 September 2010):
Sorry, sweetie. Life sucks. I broke up with my long-term girlfriend similarly. We didn't have a kid together. But I moved on quickly because the idea of breaking up with her had always been at the back of my mind. When it was time, it was time, and I made a clean break and moved on. He may come back to you someday. If he does, he'll probably be motivated by loneliness.
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reader, LOSTasYOU +, writes (11 September 2010):
 Well i wanna start off by saying i know how it feels to be a young mother and have all these responsibilities just thrown at you. Trying to please yourself, your child, your partner, your loved ones, etc. And sometimes we tend to lose balance of certain things in our lives. Try asking for some time alone so that you both can talk about whats going on and what you both can do to make things work, not only for yourselves, but for your child. Try to do something together to bring that spark back together. Things can get complicated and we sometimes let our frustration take the best of us. That might be what he's going through. Just talk to him, hear him out and take it out of consideration. Us young mothers tend to feel that we have it harder then the guys and we forget that they get frustrated and worn out as well. Hope this helps
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