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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:This boy and I have been seeing eachother off and on all summer. The other day I had 3 girls tell me that he was cheating on me. One of the girls like brought up her brother like he was interested in me or something. I'm not interested in him. Anyway it made me angry with what they told me. Anyway the next day I acted like at first nothing was wrong then I said something to him in front of everyone on the bus. I told him it was over. That evening when my Mom was on the bus, My Mother is the busdriver (UGH!!) she told me what one of the girls said. "I hope that she didn't break up with him over what I had said". I went home and cried. My Mom was the one who gave me the advice and told me if it was her he would end it to start with.I hurt him I know I could tell how he looked. I can tell by the way he looks at me that I hurt him. Then the next day my mom told him that I still cared greatly about him. That evening he told me that he still loved me. I told him the same. We talked a little and he asked me why didn't I talk to him before I jumped to conclusions. I told him that I was sorry. He hasn't called or texted me at all last weekend would not speak to me at school or talk to me this week at school. He avoids me completely. Now he doesn't talk to me at all and refuses to talk to me. I love him. I thought we were still together and we could work things out. Now I don't know. What can I do or what should I do? Please help!
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reader, xAx  +, writes (12 September 2010):
 Not for the same reasons, but i have been in this situation before. Luckily, i got back together with him. I asked him if we ever do break up again, what can i do to make him come back to me, and he said to keep trying, to keep showing him that i understand what i put him through and that i am truely sorry.
if this guy of yours is worth it, then keep trying. at least at the end of the day you'll know that you tried your best. and whatever you do, do not try to make him miss you by making him jealous, as this will make things worse. he will feel hurt by your actions and not miss you.
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