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writes:Its just a very quick question really but id appreciate answers all the same :)I was talking to one of my friends last night via text and we talking about a holiday we've just booked together with some other friends. We're both in our mid twenties and we've always been very flirty and last night he was joking about what me and him might get up to when we're away and whether we would get drunk and i would try to seduce him. He then suddenly asked if I was on the pill. I replied yes and asked him why he asked and he said he was just curious. Ive never had anyone randomly ask me that before so im a bit confused. Why would a guy suddenly ask his friend that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2010): I agree with the rest...you were talking and flirting and he is hoping to get into your pants. He has been pretty upfront about it after all. So dont flirt with him when you are on holiday unless you want it lead to something else. He is interested in you and so far you have given him every reason to think that you are interested in him too. mal
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (11 September 2010):
 He is clearly looking to have sex with you. Perhaps it wasn't as sudden a question really if you were flirting. The only thing is, would it be as boyfriend/girlfriend or would it be some sort of casual or FWB situation? Are you clear on what you want in that aspect?
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reader, gigolojone  +, writes (11 September 2010):
 Well my dear,he is thinking of getting into your pants without rubbers once you go on that holiday.
According to the way he asked this question,he wants to have sex with you but would not want you to get pregnant.....have it and get away with it....you feel me?
So be careful as you go on this holiday and please,avoid drinking too much as wine is a mocker....you drink too much,you won't be in charge of your body and senses no more and this is what your "friend" is banking on.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (11 September 2010):
 He didn't ask suddenly. You were flirting and the conversation led to sex. He's being very direct with you and asking if he could have sex and basically your responses had been yes yes yes. In his mind: are we going to have sex, are we going to have sex, are we going to have sex. In your mind: what do we do on holidays, does he like me, are we going to have fun. I don't think he's joking.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2010): He is hoping something will happen.
But, don't get drunk, do it sober if you want it to happen.
That way no excuses later.
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