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Drunken girlfriend kissed another guy for 20 minutes blaming it on the alcohol

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Question - (11 September 2010) 10 Answers - (Newest, 2 October 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My gf Drunk alcohol with boy on the beach. and allowed a boy to put his hands on her breast and other parts. And she kissed that boy for more than 20 minutes on his lips,

It hurt me a lot, but she said she dont know what happened to her bcoz he was drunk

Should i forgive her ?

Now my trust on her is not as b4.

what should i do now ?

Help me plz

we know each other for more than 2 years, she gets attract so soon toward other boys.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010):

Another irresponsible girl. She shown you her real character. You must aware of her. leave her Or love her. She will not change.

Girl try to prove that she is changed,but they come on their old part again.

Leave her.

I have enough of experience of life.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010):

How can you sure she told you truth ? Girl always hide the facts, she might let him allow to do everything with her,You will never come to know the fact. It will give you pain in future, Better you leave her

Be strong, Leave her, Let her chose her own way !!!

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (11 September 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntMe personally, I might forgive her if she was very apologetic and accepted responsibility for her actions instead of trying to blame it on the alcohol. She knew what she was doing but chose to ignore her conscience and the consequences of what she was doing.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2010):

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plz help me, i want to know if a girl can do such things when she is drunk ? if she really lost the control of her brain that she dare to do such thing with other boys ? even if she is engaged already.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2010):

Find yourself another girl who a) doesn't drink and b) "doesn't get attracted to other guys so soon". Neither of these two traits in your girlfriend are good or necessary. Seriously. Plenty of girls out there that don't drink and know how to be faithful because they're actually looking for a SERIOUS relationship. When a girl is serious about you, she would never in a million years have done what your girl did.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (11 September 2010):

CindyCares agony aunt Uhm.... I admit that I may have personal hang ups about drinking , because in the time and place I was raised, it was not socially acceptable to get drunk to the point you don't know what you are doing. ( More for a woman, but also for a man ).

So,maybe my opinion is biased, but I think the problem is not what your girlfriend did at the beach party - the problem is that you chose dating a girl that either drinks like a fish or can't hold her drinks.

You might decide to forgive her this time, because after all her transgression is not so terrible. But then ? What will she do next time she goes out and has a few drinks ?

The same ? Worse ?...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2010):

Thats something shes obviously been wanting to do.Saying she was drunk was just the perfect excuse to do it,if she didnt want to do it,she couldve stopped it as soon as it happend,but instead they kissed for 20 minutes?Theres no excuse,she made the choice to do it,no one forced her.This happend after 2 & half years of dating?Her love for you isnt that strong, clearly.If it aint strong after 2 & half years,nothing is gonna change from here on. Is this the type of girl you want to marry? Just let her go man,as hard as it may be.

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A male reader, DeepMass United States +, writes (11 September 2010):

ok , i think you should forgive her . It's hard i couldnt forgive my ex , thats why she is my ex :/ , but then i regreted so i dont want you to make the same mistake , for the alcohol part ill say Yes it is possible that it did it , because this is what happened when she met the guy she liked him but when your not drunk your subconscience say no you have a boyfriend so you turn your eyes away , thats what happens usually but when your drunk , you think i wanna kiss him or her , you just do it ! , so yeah just forgive her and you can spicy it up by having some girls arround you , start talking to girls that you think they like you , makes her jealous and also will make her to never repeat it again ! when you forgive her ;)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2010):

Forgive? NO! Alcohol is no excuse for cheating. Move on bro - there's plenty more fish in the sea.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2010):

and where the hell were you lol if she had respect for u she wouldnt even hang out with some guy alone and drink alcohol with him! its a bit a hard situation coz u dont know what really happened but i would say just ignore her for a bit and ask for time to think about it. then see what she will do. thats how u know if shes really worth to be forgiven

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