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30-35,
*londyking
writes:Hi... I'm asking to see if anyone else thinks theres an opening here for me to become friends and then something more with this girl, I'm just really going to summarize what I think shows a chance and shows a lack there of:* I can swear that I've seen her looking at me and even smiling at times when I looked at eachother. (Yesterday at our school's first football game I was looking around and eventually spotted her looking right at me)* Whenever we're around eachother at our sports practise we kinda play around (example: yesterday I sprayed her with some cold water and she chased me and tried to push me into the pool)* We've talked about interests decently but not alotBut here are the things that make me wonder if I have a chance:* She always seems nervous or in a hurry (I can understand this because she's a freshman and all, but I don't know if it's because of school or me or something else)* She seems to kinda put up a wallI have been planning to ask her out to lunch so we could talk somemore, I figured this would help with the wall issue, but I was wondering if anyone can give an opinion as to if She has some kind of interest or if she's put off by me?She's one of the most interesting and beautiful people I've ever met and I can't help but want to be with her, but I wana know that if I jump I'll land on something, ya know? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2010): Just ask one of her friends if she likes you. It's the oldest trick in the book and may seem kinda lame but its the perfect move. You find out whether or not she is into you without the risk of rejection.
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reader, Boy Blue +, writes (12 September 2010):
It's amazing how we guys always fall for some of the more difficult women don't ya think? Hehe
Well no use in wondering forever right? If you get the chance to be sincere then talk to her and explain to her that you are interested in her and would like to get to know her better and date her. School's life is short, u better make use of it!
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reader, Duckyhelp  +, writes (12 September 2010):
 She likes you she will just be nervous and not know what to say to you. or being in hurry to make you think shes an interesting person with much to do and can be independant.
The flirty behaviour you describe shows she likes you.
I think you should take it slow for a bit, get to know her more, if you have her mobile number, text her, get to know what she likes and dislikes, then if you guys text a lot then you will end up growing a fancy to each other.
Hope this helps. If you want to ask more questions, feel free to mail me and ask :)
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