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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Im stuck in such a heartbreaking situation. Afew of us go out at the weekends we all used to be great mates but recently one of thems changed. Its heartbreaking because i once was and still am in love with him although i know nothing will ever happen between us. I cant exactlly turn round to him and say you dont even act like a friend to me but truth is he doesnt. Well its weird, if im talking to him already he will ask me if i wanna come out with everyone if hes arranged it and he says "you alright" and stuff. But after that nothing. he will be friendly just mes around have a lauhg with anyone else but no matter how hard i try he doesnt seem to wanna talk to me. he makes no effort whats so ever.my bottom line would be to never see him again and i wish i could but i cant its not up to me who comes out or anything and i want to be friends. Funny thing is he says he does too.He also trys to make himself out to be something he isnt like lying about what hes done. Saying stuff just to fit in and hes even started smoking which isnt like himk hes ALWAYS been against it. Whether he just does it when we're out or whether he has fully started i dont know. I cant get any of it out my head, all that he did as if he felt the same way but how weird hes always been with me. I dont know what to do but i want my mate back :'( pleae help me Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2010): Maybe he's going through some personal stuff that no one else knows about. He's prob shielding himself outward so no one knows whats going on inside.
You just have to let him be...can't force someone to like you, either romantically or platonically.
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