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writes:I've had feelings towards a teacher for a long time, im 15 and he is 24. I didn't realise he liked me back but here are some of the things that have happenedHe has asked me if i have a boyfriend and when i said no he said 'that's good'He stares at me during lessons and doesn't seem to worry if i catch himIn one of his detentions he asked me what i thought of him and when i said i thought he was great he came up to me and hugged me for what seemed like hours. :)Of course im happy that he seems to like me but im still confused and im not sure if he is just being nice or if he has feelings for me to :S any advice? p.s he wants me to help him with something before school on monday so i might say something to him then. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2010): we're in the same situation :/
i think im inlove with my gorgeous teacher.he's 33,im only 18.whenever we have our class,he always teases me(in a good way,like why am i so beautiful,im stylish,im smart),and he's giving off hints that he likes me,but i never take it seriously. anyway,he's divorced but he has a 5 year old daughter. last month,he broke up with his girlfriend of 2years.also, last month,i broke up with my boyfriend.i was really devastated so i invited my classmates to drink.when i arrived at the place,i was surprised to see that he was with them.so we got drunk(not really.haha) then since i was tipsy,he offered me to drive me home.we were at the front of my house when he kissed me and admitted that he likes me.i was like "whoaaa.i like you too." after that day,he texted me(i dont know why he has my number),he told me "do you like me too? is what you said last night true?" then i told him,"yeah,its true.i remember everything last night." then the next day,we went to a bar again(with my classmates,of course) then after that,he drove me home again.but this time,SOMETHING HAPPENED.we did it in his car. WTF.i cant believe it also,but i liked it,maybe because i like him.and i felt a connection between us.after we did it,we felt close..that's when i fell in love with him. but a few days after,things got out of hand and i found myself staying away from him. why? because he's out of my league. he's 33,for pete's sake.he's divorced and has a daughter! i cant love him. its forbidden. so im trying my best not to love him anymore.i dont text him, and whenever we have classes, i just do my task as his student..its hard,but its for the best. there's so many guys out there to love,someone who's right for you.so just forget about him,like what i did :(
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reader, tutu8896  +, writes (12 September 2010):
i dont know how it is where u are but in the states thats illegal and both of you could get into alot of trouble. i think that you should tell him that you dont like him even if you do because like i said before you could get into alot of trouble.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2010): Be careful because even if he does like you, you have to remember that you are A) Under age and B) You are his student. No matter how genuine your feelings may seem towards eachother it is a sticky situation, and he could loose his job over this. It is difficult but if you care for him as a person then you wouldnt do anything to jeapordise his career, and he should concider the same. Manny teachers have gone to jail after having inappropriate relationships with students.
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