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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:This boy and I have been seeing eachother off and on all summer. The other day I had 3 girls tell me that he was cheating on me. One of the girls like brought up her brother like he was interested in me or something. I'm not interested in him. Anyway It made me angry with what they told me. Any way the next day I acted like at first nothing was wrong then I threw it in his face in front of everyone. I told him it was over. hurt him I know I could tell how he looked. Then the next day my mom told him that I still cared greatly about him and asked how did he feel about me he said he still liked me. That evening he told me that he still loved me. I told him the same. He didn't call or txt me all weekend would not speak to me at school. The onnly thing he said to me was didn't I talk to him before I jumped to conclusions. He don't talk to me at all. I love him. I thought we were still together. Now I don't know. What can I do or what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Ven +, writes (18 October 2010):
It's hard to give advice to people your age, because he might be a really mature guy or a childish brat.
I think you should decide right now, that guys who cheat on you don't get a second chance. It is a great rule to get into your head now so that you don't get all love-crazy and let some jerk get away with hurting you.
If you aren't sure that he cheated, then talk to him. Let him know you are sorry for what you did, but make sure to remember that your mistake doesn't mean you should forgive him if he is cheating.
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