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I can't tell if my guy is having orgasm or not

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Question - (11 September 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 September 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm a little confused. I've never been able to feel when my guy comes inside of me. With my ex-bf, I always knew he came because it'd be dripping out and when I went to clean up, the ejaculate was always pearl-ish white, so I always assumed that was how you could tell. With my new boyfriend, we'd have sex but like always, I don't feel anything when he comes and don't see or feel anything dripping. I'd have this clear liquid inside of me but I don't know if that's from me or him. He said he came, but I'm wondering if he actually did?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2010):

Semen volume varies with things like age, sexual excitement, frequency of orgasms, diet, fluid intake and just physiology. A few guys will spew tons of the stuff (ever seen Peter North in porn?) while others trickle a tiny bit. It's normal.

Or, he could be faking. I faked once with a girl who was just too lousy in bed ot make me cum. She was sweaty and smelled. But I had on a condom, so I got away with it.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (11 September 2010):

dirtball agony auntMaybe he did. If he masturbates as well there will be less sperm in his ejaculate causing it to appear more clear. There will also be less of it.

That would be my guess as to what is happening.

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