A
male
age
41-50,
*ohnny angel
writes:hi againi have a question about bondage sex the thing is my boyfriend loves to tie me up and stuff and i love it as well but sometimes i am scared that this is what he wants from me and nothing else hes loveing kind and since moveing out here as u know most of my family have taken to him the thing is he likes to be with me and act as if we are master and slave when were out thats the part i hate that and the look i get if i talk to another guy i had friends of the same sex befor he moved out here and told him mabey i shoudthave as i would be able to do what i like i have never cheted on him at all but he admmeted he has chetted on me befor comeing to the usa and now its as if he dosent trust me i love him a lot but feel as if i cant move with out him the sex is great but thats not all i want from him
View related questions:
moved out Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (12 September 2010):
 he doesn't respect you- he wants to dominate and control you (in public all the time is the telling sign as its not just occasional role play) and you can tell this and its making you uncomfortable. the whole point of bondage is its about trust and control and the feeling i get from your description is that this relationship lacks trust and has a strange control imbalance.
if your not happy move on
A
male
reader, der_zyniker +, writes (12 September 2010):
If he doesn't trust you there is no way that this will last. He doesn't treat you all that well. I think it would be best to end this relationship. If he's already cheated on you I wouldn't put it past him to do it again.
...............................
A
female
reader, sarahrose20  +, writes (12 September 2010):
it sounds like he needs to have power and control thats why he ties you up and treats you like a slave. part of it could have to do with his guilty concience too as hes cheated before he believes your cabable as well and he needs to make sure you wont ever do that to him, unfortunetally there is no way to truly convince him that you are and will always be 100% faithful as its his own guilt thats causing it.
...............................
|
