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Why is he taking me where other women he dates hang out?

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Question - (11 September 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 September 2010)
A female United States age 51-59, *oonstreak writes:

So this turkish guy that goes where i go listen to music stares at me alot which i dont find creepy. He ask for my number after a long while of this. Then he calls alot and i say okay we can do womething. So he tells me he is seeing two other women. I am not upset because i am single and i have been dating. I ask what kind of women etc etc. I say i dont know thks for being honest. He says and then i get i tell them i like you and they say it is okay you are mad at me. Then we go do something for the second time and he takes me to this club where one of them hang out. I didnt know but her friend is there i am like what are trying to make her jealous i get no it is okay i like you. I like him but i guess i will take it for what it is a few nice dates. All these other women keep telling me he seems protective over me. I dont think he seems protective. So why is he calling me so much if he is seeing other women? Why is he taking me where they hang out? I guess i should not take him to seriously.

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A female reader, Moonstreak United States +, writes (12 September 2010):

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Well it looks like i am not getting an answer to my question. I have decided i am going to hang and see what happens. I see him every weekend and now he wants to during the week. If he is spending this much time with me how much can he really be spending with them. I also notice he answers his phone right away if i call. Which i dont much he calls alot. I notice he does not answer for these girls when they call. Besides we just started dating and if i do get put on the back burner ever it is not like i cant find something to do. I am not a very jealous person a little competition never hurt anyone. Honesty is a good start.

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A female reader, Moonstreak United States +, writes (12 September 2010):

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Well looks like no one is answering. I have decided to see him any way. I mean we hang every weekend and he is want to hang out one or two days a week. I also noticed when i call him he answers his phone when we are hanging out and they call he does not answer. How much time can he really be spending with them if he is spending this much with me. Besides we just started dating and honesty is a good start. I am just gonna hang and see how it goes. I am not a very jealous person so i can handle it. A little competition never hurt anyone. And if i get put on the back burner then it is not like i cant find something to do.

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A female reader, Moonstreak United States +, writes (11 September 2010):

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oops i meant something. I do that alot. Very undecided on geting to know the guy and dating a little. I find it a little strange to tell me all this when i did not ask after calling me so much. Although at the same time i find it honest. Dinner was nice tthe club was nice on the second date. I dont want to hang out where other women he is dating may be though what if they make a big scene and why confuses me lots. I never had any guys do tha before so hey men tell me why is he doing that.

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