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anonymous
writes: I was reading my girlfriends facebook comments when i noticed she has something going on with another guy..they talk a ton and she keeps telling him how much she misses him. It's pretty flirty and he tells her he loves her? I'm sure it's meant to be friendly but still..its weird. Anything to worry about? They also talk on skype. He lives in a different state but they still get to see eachother every once in a while. She claims him to be her best friend. Some people on facebook ask if they are going out. My friend showed me this stuff on his facebook since i dont have one. I feel like she has so many guy friends and im getting really tired of it. I really like her but she's such a natural flirt that im wondering if it's worth it. Am i over reacting or should i move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh i forgot to add that they have many pictures of eachother together on her facebook..Like..hes all over her! His arm around her in every one.
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reader, Odds +, writes (11 September 2010):
Hmmm. Probably overreacting. She's open about knowing the guy, and being close friends with him, so I wouldn't worry. If you confront her too harshly she may get defensive - if you're nonchalant about it, then she doesn't hide anything, you're probably fine.
Natural flirts are a real pain to date, though. Does she flirt with everyone, or just talk a lot with this guy? And, for that matter, is he gay? Girls and their gay friends always flirt like that for some reason.
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