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writes:Hi All,Just need some advice as to what to do! A month ago me and my fiance started to have some issues with our relationship. Basically i've gone further and further down on her list to a point where i was getting absolutely no attention. We had a few discussions over the weeks but nothing i did would change the way she was. It actually ended up her saying to me that she takes and takes off me but can't even be bothered to give anything back. We have an eight month old girl and i have been working hard to ensure my fiance has the longest time off work we can afford. On top of that we recently bought our first house some 4 months ago. Now she has hit me with "I don't love you like i should and it would be better for all three of us if she left" along with my little baby girl. I'm stunned. She has spent the last two weeks finding out where to live and what benefits she will get as well as returning to work. I am sure all this has been caused by one of her recently single friends spending an increasing time with my fiance. I know i will have to let them both go to begin with but does anyone have any advice as to the best way i can make her see all three of us should be a family? This is so sudden i know it could be turned around. Help!!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 October 2010):
 Ok well it may seem sudden to you but am afraid your girlfriend knows how she is feeling and obviously her love for you has been dying for quite a while now and she has hid it quite well.
You just need to ask her what happened when things started going wrong for her and ask her is there anything that you can do to change how she feels as you want the three of you to be a family.
If she does move out then i guess you just have to accept it and be there for your daughter as much as you can be. Make sure that you get regular access to her and just spend all your time making your daughter happy and loved.
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