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writes:I need to be a strong person, not letting negative things stand in my way and be able to take risk not being afraid of the outcome. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (28 October 2010):
 Personality is what makes you unique, if he took it the wrong way then it sounds like communication is the break down.
Time is a wonderful healer, take a little break and try contacting him again.
If it cant be salvaged then pick yourself up and start again.
If everyone was perfect the world would be a boring place to live.
Hope it works out for you!
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reader, kbdd +, writes (27 October 2010):
kbdd is verified as being by the original poster of the question and when i told a certain someone i would change i think he took it the wrong way. like i would change my personality i cant change. Just better myself right, and in a way isnt that the same as saying im changing. We are broken up now as of 2 days. and i think I should send it to him. I am not changing for him but myself. I want this for myself. As well as to make us happier...but idk how he feels about me saying that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2010): Without struggle there is no progress. Dont be afraid to make mistakes as you will learn from them and turn them into positive things for your future. Keep going forward...dont stop as its part of maturing and finding yourself. Good luck :)
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reader, No watered down advice here! +, writes (27 October 2010):
 Kenj, Hit the nail right on the head! When he said BELIEVE in yourself!!!! Here's a very short story! I asked a man what was his Beliefs he said "If Believe in myself" then everything else I believe in falls right into place. No watered down advice here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2010): Follow your own advice.
spunky monkey
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reader, Kenj +, writes (26 October 2010):
It depends on the kind of person you are. For me being honest with myself allows me to be honest with others, admit mistakes and know your only human and faith in taking risks helps me succeed.
Life is full of taking risks it really is not down to luck but down to how you project yourself on society.
In other words believe in yourself and tell yourself you can and will succeed in anything you set out to do. It really is that simple, a state of mind.
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reader, [?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] +, writes (26 October 2010):
![[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] agony aunt](/avatars/7bb1e9ea-6c2f-43b8-a4f7-0635b7eff08c.png) Okay this is something I've been trying to learn myself, but I've been tought.. To come out of beign negative, and being more self confident is to believe in yourself. Who cares what other peoples opinions are? Seriously. The only opinion that should matter is yours! If you don't love yourself, than you wont ever be happy. You need to start appreciating what you have, and learn to tell yourself you're a outstanding, spectacular person. You are your hardest critic, remember that. So don't be hard on yourself, you are you. There isn't a damn thing to be ashamed of. Don't ever change, your personality, appearance, or attitude, just because others make a remark. Ignore them, they are jealous that you are getting somewhere, and they aren't. Live your life to the fullest, have excitement, enjoyment, fulfill your dreams, achieeve your goals. Go on, and take each day step by step. The cycle of progressing takes time, it's not easy. But once you accept yourself it will be, and more people will see that in their eyes. You are strong, everyone is. You just don't see it yet but you will once you try to. Show your inner you, embrace it, and don't let anyone control your feelings. You take care of yourself, I believe in you sweet pea. xoxo.
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