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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been living with Mr. Lebanese(nickname) for 2 years now. However, he is engaged as requested by his parents to someone she barely know (they just see each other if he's going for vacation which is 10 days a year). He's been engagged before we met.fiancee's family is getting impatient with the marriage since it has been 2 years already. Now he's in lebanon for a week against his will and promise me to do everything to cut the relation. Should i let him choose and give him an ultimatum., me? or her?? I dont want to pressure him or anything.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (30 October 2010):
 Why on earth would you move in with someone who is committed to someone else? I would move out until he decides who it is he wants (NOT who his parents want him to be with!) He's an adult and should be making his own choices. You continuing to live with him is just giving him the best of both worlds no matter how little or often he sees this other woman. (I wonder if she knows he's living with someone else???)
Move out until he's made his decision!
~Eve~
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1  +, writes (30 October 2010):
Do not give an ultimatum. Be understanding and figure it out rationally. Never give and ultimatum, they are controlling and demanding.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 October 2010):
 am afraid he needs to chose between you as this is not fair on you or for her. Its wrong that you are having a relationship with a man that is taken already by another man therefore you need to tell him it is me or her and stick to it.
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